Polygamy confusion

THINKING ALOUD
I love and support polygamy
I hate polygamy
I can cope in a polygamous marriage
I cant share my hubby,where were they when I was suffering with him
I'm a widow I need a man in my life most probably only a married man will be interested in me
Co wives are wicked stepmother
First wives don't always want to accept co wives
Men cannot do justice between their wives
Co wives come with juju and spiritual attack
First wives want to jujulise man so as not to look at another woman
Protect your territory
Relax your territory cos of widows and divorcee
Me I will divorce him if he takes another wife
Me oo I will stay.There is nothing  wrong after all I'm from a second wife
Polygamy scattered my family
Polygamy has really helped my family
Step children hate each other
Step children help each other
Men are callous they ditch older wives
  some men are fair amongst their wives
I'm too jealous to be in a polygamous marriage
I'm not a jealous person I can cope well
Let her come in she does not know I'm the bread winner
I want to go and chop that man money I must marry him
Allah ordained polygamy
But Allah said whoever can treat them equally should go ahead or marry one if you cant
Husband snatcher
I just want her to shift small but now I will take him completely or share him with her

It causes me pain to see him with another woman
He is our husband let me enjoy him too
Abeg hand dey pain me
Make i continue
Its a never ending circle
There is no point arguing
Oh ye women
We better stop this bitterness and bickering and think of ways to support ourselves with loving words and care
Oh ye who accepts polygamy
Oh ye who don't accept polygamy
Bottom line we are all women
We need to move on as enlightened women and accept whatever fate has decreed for us.
Lets talk about how to live fullfilling life with educative talks and beneficial knowledge.
We have first wives,second wives,third wives fourth wives and single wives amongst us.In all des category  most times first wife Is the most pained
So don't come here and preach what Islam says about polygamy cos every woman makes it her business to find out.
I have said it we are all on different sides of the fence, whichever side you are on determines what you see and what you are
prayers heal all wounds
We can argue,fight and quarrel but there will be no winner.
The argument just continues and it gets messier and messier
Na you know ur situation.
Me I don talk my own.